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“NEVER LET SOMEONE THAT HAS NO IDEA WHAT YOU’RE DOING STOP YOU FROM PERSUING IT. WOULD YOU FOLLOW A “HOW TO DO’ BOOK WRITTEN BY AN AUTHOR THAT KNEW AS MUCH OR LESS ABOUT THE TOPIC AT HAND AS YOU DID? I HOPE NOT. HAVE A GREAT DAY YALL”- @QUESTMCODY
Writing this book is consuming me. In a good way. I find my self so focused. I made it to chapter 5 this Sunday and I must say I’m excited. I’m releasing all of my demons in this book. The things I’ve done I’m not proud of the people who have hurt me and taken from me. So much thought has been put into this project, I really feel like this by far is one of my greatest accomplishments. “FROM PAIN TO POWER- setting my self free” I’ve been playing around with different titles, trying to come up with the best fit for the book and so far that’s what I’ve come up with. A close friend of mine asked me, “What is the purpose of writing a book about my life? Do you think people will buy the book stylez?” she asked. And, well honestly, It’s not about if people buy my book or not. It’s really about me healing. I’m sure some people will have negative feed back, but I’m prepared. I’m taking the painful memories I have and I’m transforming them. I’ve never spoken out; I’ve kept things bottled up for so long. Further more if one person reads my book and it impacts them than my job is done. There are so many women out there who have experienced what some of the things I have, who don’t speak out or who can’t speak out. So I’m going to stop being a pussy, I’ve promised to tell my story, and that’s what’s been taking up the bulk of my time. Good bad or indifferent this book, is my truth. So for all of you who think you know…. YOU HAVE NO IDEA
I haven’t been writing as much because my attention has been else where. I apologize for the neglect. I’ve missed you though if that counts for anything. I’ve been seriously putting thoughts to paper. I’m constructing my first book. As much as I want to go in and tell you the details, I have to wait. Timing is everything. but i will say I am extremely excited. These past few day’s I’ve been MIA. I’ve run around with porn star friends,& reality star friends. Special birthday love to the boy DJ Pro-Style and promoter OBIE and all you other Taurus folk. Stylez has been a busy woman, reconnecting with old folk. closing chapters in my life. Today I’m feeling absolutely in control. I had the opportunity to be a bitch to someone that really did me dirty but instead, i took the higher road. the road to success is learning from your failures, to strengthen your successes. I have been learning so much. I don’t regret anything that I’ve been through and I don’t hold grudges, however I don’t forget either. I will always remember those people who went out their way to hurt or betray me. and I keep those people distant. no need in having those negative forces around me. I’m cooking up some greatness for you loyal readers, so just bare with me and be patient. lol some one told me I’m a freak because I hang with porn stars, and my response to that is, I was a freak long before i met my porno friends lmao. I’m just not freaky with everyone certain lovers get certain treatment that other lovers may not, depends on the chemistry, the relationship etc!
ok I’ll be back to get into it in depth later. but in the mean time make sure you download my latest mixtape with par city HERE: copy and paste code in browse http://www.megaupload.com/?d=N2J83L4Z
SIMPLY STYLEZ PRESENTS PAR CITY HELD OVER THE HOLD UP PART 2!!!!
When you think of the word GOSSIP, what comes to mind?
For me, when I think of the word, I think of a bunch of women sitting around in the nail salon talking shit about the last broad to leave the shop, lol. In fact Gossip is often attributed to women, however more than a few men I know also take part in this dangerous pass time. Hell, I honestly think men gossip just as much as women, if not more. Yesterday I was walking with a friend from Sirius, I needed ice, and so I asked him to take the walk with me. Upon reaching the ice machine we passed a co-worker, everything was normal, said our hello’s, made the small talk, but no sooner than she walked away was he telling me how much of a slut she is. I just listened, wanted to see how much information he would spill. 
So if he could talk to me about the character of another woman, imagine what he tells his boys. It’s just like me n that kiss and tell, I honestly believe that those are the type of men that are the “pressed type”, you know? The type that never really got play in high school etc and now when they do get the wet and wild, they feel like it has to be a public broadcast…
There is nothing more sacred than trust between two partners, sexual or otherwise. I need to know that my business won’t be floating all over the street. Hell, how can a person truly explore and get creative sexually, and or otherwise if they have to worry about what they did being advertised later?
I think it all depends on the maturity level, if your partner is mature enough, he won’t care to tell your business further more, birds of a feature flock together, if your partner is mature chances are his/her friends are too, what ADULT {doesn’t necessarily mean 18+}
Do you know wastes time on kissing and telling? 
If two adults decide to get down, than that should be just what it is, neither of the two participating parties should have to worry about who will find out what, and who is talking to who about what’s going on in the bed room. I think this is one of the factors that distinguish the men from the boys, girls from the women. Are you with your partner for show and tell? Or are you with that person because you genuinely enjoy him/her? Guys its bad enough women gossip, we don’t need you doing it too. You’ve stolen the tight jeans, you rock the Murse {man bag} hell you even use body butter, but please, please refrain from the gossip. It’s too lady like lol.
It’s Monday the start of yet another work week. Usually I start the week off with a playful blog, but this morning is going to be a bit different. I couldn’t help but notice one of the trending topics on twitter this past weekend. What blew my mind further were some of the ignorant comments people were making, especially some made by tasteless women. The trending topic was RAPE.
I can’t speak for anyone else, but I consider this to be an ultra sensitive topic, that should never be joked about. There is nothing funny about a person forcing themselves on another person. I was more than offended by some of the comments people wrote, and disturbed by @lilduval for starting the trending topic in the first place. Now before I go in, I will say I kinda liked lil Duval, I thought his twitter antics were funny, until he created the #itaintrape…, I can’t begin to describe the outrage I felt. We joke and kid about things without really thinking about what we are putting in the atmosphere “#itaintrape if the pussy gets wet” that’s what one of the Duval groupies said.
I mean seriously, where do we draw the line? Apparently I wasn’t the only person outraged because @Michaelskolnik from global grind lashed out on the foolishness as well, in an article titled “are you fuckin kidding me” www.globalgrind.com 
I think it’s a shame people just jump on the band wagon for anything, with out using a bit of common sense. I mean come on, #ITAINTRAPE? There isn’t anything better to TT about? This dude @lilduval is wack for that, and I don’t care how many of you duval groupies don’t like what I’m saying. Does this man not have women in his family?
Is he that desperate for attention? This is exactly what my mentor means by fame seekers, so thirsty to be in the lime light, they will say, and do anything!!! People are so desperate to seem “twitter-cool”. Rather than being a fame seeker, why not use your influence to help our community?
I talked to my home girls about this, and they were all outraged as well. Out of my 4 closest homies and myself, 3 of us have been molested or raped. Lil Duval you have no idea of the mental anguish we’ve had to deal with, on a daily basis. What if your daughter was raped? Would you tell her, it ain’t rape if your pussy gets wet? Pathetic, Rather than trying to get attention, and trying to make people like you on twitter, maybe you need to do some soul searching. If this is the type of attention you want, you are the lamest. Victims of rape often blame themselves for it, Hell, I used to blame myself for what happened to me, luckily I’ve had great people in my corner who have helped me through some of the pain, however it doesn’t erase the memory, nor does it change what was done. Your Trending Topic brought tears to my eyes, to see how ignorant people can be. Lil Duval since you seem to have the answers, was it rape when he decided to repeatedly penetrate my 6 year old womb, when he stole my innocence?
People really need to start thinking for themselves rather than allowing idiots like Lil Duval dictate what is “cool”
And if a woman says no, thats it NO MEANS NO, if you take it or try ti persuade her, its rape no if, and, or, buts about it!
Unsure if you will take advantage of her.
She’s weak, been hurt a time or two
But despite the trials and tribulations
She is willing to put the past behind her
And explore something new
She’s willing to let go of the pain
Able to move forward
She wants to feel wanted.
Needs to feel desired
Afraid to express herself
Unsure of which direction to take,
Unwilling to waste time
Not looking to be hurt.
Your fears are her fears
Trusting the unknown
Unsure of what will transpire
However, one thing for sure
She wants you.
She is my Heart.
P-; my backwards smily lol {inny}
Check out the homie Javale Mcgee, you might know him as the Forward-Center for the washington wizards, but homie is more than a Ball player. He’s blessed me with an exclusive beat he produced, and I’ve decided to share it with you, my special friends.. hell lets make a contest… The person that can make the fliest rhyme about me and my shade-45 family on this beat, I will post it, and play it on Shade-45…. so what uppp???.. do you have what it takes to do Javale Mcgee’s “better” beat justice? And please don’t try to steal… lmao we are all the way copyright! lol
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Is Chivalry really dead? This is a question I found myself asking this weekend?
If it is dead who killed it? Is it because women are too strong minded these days? 
I had a conversation with my best friend’s mother. She and, I were discussing Love, and relationships. She is in a new, yet old relationship. She ended up bumping into her childhood love, the dude she truly loved as a youngling, before the kids and the husband, before she lost her sense of self. She said that chivalry for the most part is dead, and that’s why it’s detrimental to a healthy relationship for the man to love the woman more. He should naturally want to treat you like a queen which includes holding doors, pulling chairs etc. Which led me to the next thought… we’ll where does “CHIVALRY” derive? 
The Code of Chivalry is often taken to be a matter of opinion, but most would agree that the following virtues all have a place in the virtues a knight should have. How many of you know Knights? lmao… So we place all these Knightly codes for our men to follow and if they don’t follow them, than they don’t love us? 
The problem is, Society as a whole doesn’t expose or teach the meaning of love, moreover love is portrayed as a series of dramatic events that eventually lead to sex, and heartache. Hell, we’ve made a mockery of love, with the flava of love, for the love of ray, rock of love and the list goes on. So what is the real definition of love? Do you know?
If you had it, could you recognize it? I think we get so caught up in the manufactured definition on love that we fail to realize you can’t put a definition on the way someone feels. What may be love for one couple might be courting for the other. Learning what love truly is requires that you learn yourself first. Take some time to realize who you are, and what you can offer. You can’t truly love others until you understand and love yourself. So many women seek “love” but don’t really love themselves. 
I’ve fell victim to this train of thought. Luckily I have wise women around me that pulled my card. We put to much emphasis on being lonely and needing a partner, however, once you learn to love yourself, you come to the realization, having a partner is like having an accessory. You want it but you don’t need it.
Focus On Bettering You!! The other stuff will fall into place!
Who can love you better than you?
Stylez
http://www.sendspace.com/file/mdx913 80’s babies… The mixtape Adebisi… Mz Stylez… DJ Big Jeff!!! yes we def put our feet in this one… lol… Shout outs to Milwaukee… It took alot of time and dedication with this tape. its crazy how this tape came out. I feel really good about this one. 
Adebisi Good looks on this one bruh! def a tribute to good music. i see the appreciation. I can def attest to this brothers hard work and dedication. shout out to big jeff.. we def had fun with this one! You have a nice flow going on bruh!!! Shout outs to the 80’s babies…